Book florist – start thinking about your choice of wedding flowers
Book wedding photographer
Book toastmaster (if having one)
Book any musicians or DJ
Book make-up artist – it’s a great idea to opt for a make up artist as it allows you to really kick back and enjoy your day. They are also normally well tuned into what works on camera and what doesn’t so there will be no shiny faces or mismatched base!
Order stationery/make your own- there are some amazing wedding blogs to get some great DIY ideas that will start the creative juices flowing!
4 MONTHS BEFORE
Finalise gift list
Buy bridal lingerie- remember to then take this along to all your bridal fittings! Suggest your bridesmaids do the same
Start thinking about favours, table decorations, table names and place cards
3 MONTHS BEFORE
Arrange suit fittings for the groomsmen
Choose and buy wedding rings
Send out invitations to all your guests
Agree and finalise all the wedding flowers required for your wedding day
Start thinking about what vows and readings to have
Start thinking about ceremony music
Start looking at first dance ideas
Create song list requests (including songs not to play!)
Order favours and table decorations if not making your own
Buy wedding shoes- remember to fit them on and have a good walk around the room. Remember, you will be wearing these for a whole day and will be on your feet for most of it and you definitely want to be comfortable and happy dancing the night away at the reception. Consider having your shoes coloured to add a touch of unexpected colour under a gorgeous wedding dress.
Buy wedding veil and tiara- remember to hang your veil out the night before the wedding, preferably in a walk room like the bathroom after a shower. This will naturally work out the creases and make your veil lie in the way it was cut. Never, Never steam a veil.
2 MONTH BEFORE
Decide what vows and readings to have and confirm with minister/registrar
Confirm ceremony details with minister/registrar (including order of service)
Have trial run with hairdresser and/or make-up artist
Buy guest book
1 MONTH BEFORE
Arrange final wedding dress fittings
Arrange final fittings for bridesmaids, page boy and flower girl
Choose your wedding day perfume- this can be a fun activity you do with your bridesmaids, meeting in a department store after work one evening and following it up with girly cocktails once you’ve found the perfect sent!
Confirm all bookings with your wedding suppliers
Confirm honeymoon booking, timings etc
Confirm timings with the venue – including deliveries and wedding day schedule
Buy clothes for honeymoon- remember that if you are having a winter wedding, it may not be cold where you are going, Bikini’s ladies!
Have your stag do
Have your hen do
Decide who to have as your two witnesses
Arrange date for wedding rehearsal (if church wedding)
Contact any guests who have not yet responded to the invitations
Agree and confirm any reception formalities and timings – to include receiving line, speeches and cake cutting.
2 WEEKS BEFORE
Finalise seating plan and provide venue and caterers with a copy
Create place cards and table plan- There are some gorgeous ideas using items found around the house, or in charity stores such as pegging names to old bird cages etc, so make sure you have a good look in magazines and online before you make a decision.
Make favours and any other table decorations (if making your own)
Provide caterers with final numbers including details of special dietary requirements
Provide the photographer with a list of essential shots – make sure they take pictures of your accessories and dress. Photographers can take some gorgeous abstract shots that you can use for thank you cards later.
Arrange to make any outstanding payments required in advance
Start to wear your wedding shoes around the house
1 WEEK BEFORE
Get a haircut (groom) – This allows for any ‘slightly too short’ cuts to grow out a little before the day.
Start packing for your honeymoon
Final check for all outfits – everyone to try on complete outfit to make sure everything is ok
Put together a schedule of wedding day timings and distribute to the wedding party. Give a copy of contact details for the wedding suppliers to the best man- this is a great idea for reassurance!
Buy any last minute items for honeymoon
Write thank you cards for your helpers and wrap any thank you gifts
Finalise arrangements with hairdresser/make-up artist re timings
THE DAY BEFORE
Drop off decorations, table plan, place cards, favours and guest book (and two+ pens) at the venue
Take out cash for any cash payments to be made on the day
Give rings to the best man
Ensure your honeymoon luggage is packed and left ready to be collected or taken with you in the car. Don’t forget to pack the tickets and passports.
Lay out your wedding outfit, accessories, make-up and perfume so everything is ready for the morning (or pack everything up if you’re getting ready elsewhere)
Ensure you have an emergency kit packed for your wedding day – to include plasters, mints, safety pins, pain-killers, make-up, mini hairspray and deodorant
Speak to your attendants – check everyone knows what they need to do and when
Get pampered – have a manicure, pedicure and beauty treatment (but not a facial!). A massage is a great way for both the bride and groom to relax
Make time to relax – have a nice bath, chill out and get to bed early
Don’t forget to set your alarm – although you’ll probably wake up early anyway
YOUR WEDDING DAY
Check that the wedding bouquet, buttonholes and corsages have arrived
Check best man has rings, copies of speeches, vows, readings and any messages
AFTER THE WEDDING
Return hired clothing
Send wedding cake to anyone who couldn’t make the wedding